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Win Him Over with Flirting

If you want to meet, attract, and date more men then you need to learn how to flirt with them.  Here are some of the top flirting techniques that are proven to get a man interested and keep him interested in you.

Be playful

Men love playful women. They hate the idea of getting stuck talking to nervous, careful, and boring women. As soon as you demonstrate to a man that you are fun, he will begin opening up to you more.


A great way to flirt with a man is to tease him.  As you’re talking to him look for an opportunity to make fun of something he’s doing.  Don’t be mean or cruel, simply tease him a bit in a fun way about something silly he has done or said.

Get physical

After you’ve used verbal teasing to let him know you’re flirting with him, then you can begin to physically tease him.  Physical teases include making an exaggerated expression as he is telling a story, sticking your tongue out at him, or pulling your hand away when he goes to give you high five.

Don’t be scared of looking childish… that’s the point! The best examples of flirting are the sort of things you used to do back on the playground in grade school.

Be mysterious

Men love the suspense of not knowing exactly how you feel about them.  Once you come right out and tell a man you like him, the sexual tension that was building between the two of you begins to die down.  This is why it is always better to never quite let him know where he stands with you.  This idea of push/pull is a powerful technique when flirting with a man.

Take it to the next level

Once you’ve established yourself as a fun, flirty type of girl, you must begin taking the conversation to a more sexual level.  This is because you don’t want to come across as the “funny friend” or “the flirt”… instead, you want him to begin seeing you as a woman he would like to get intimate with.  The best way to do this is to become more physical with your flirting.  This means you do things like hold his hand, hold eye contact longer and get closer to him while speaking.

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